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The wanton ramblings of wanna-be artist who likes to dress up in pretty things
I'm addicted to Atashinchi no Danshi 

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16th-Jun-2009 08:02 am
nana oosaki
At the prompting of [info]vertfonce , I'm posting an update to all my crazy misadventures.

Ummm... so to start, I wish I've been keeping a detailed journal of everything that's been going on, because like I was telling my dad the other day (or last week...?), everyday there is just something new that I see or I do or that happens that's amazing. For example: men in kimono on scooters. Pretty much the greatest thing since sliced bread. OR. Young men in business suits on scooters. Girls in business skirts and heels on bicycles. Old women in kimono on the street car. Taxis with lace doily seat covers. Drinking in a bar and not worrying about what drunk meathead is going to try to rape you on your way home. Eating lunch on a bench at the campus across the street and watching all the college students with their awesome outfits walk by. Watching ridiculous game/talk/food tasting/random shows on TV, and not having any clue whats going on, but laughing at it anyway. Being greeted like you're a celebrity by twelve awesome second graders who group hug you so hard you almost fall over. Walking around in lolita knowing you're being stared at because you're a blonde haired pale-as-hell foreigner, and not because you're dressed "like a freak." Buying used manga and Jpop CDs for 250 yen a piece!!!! (that's about $2.50)

I could keep going. Maybe later I will, but for now I guess I'll talk about today. First, I spent way too much money yesterday, but I finished my furisode kitsuke finally, and I found red and white striped socks to go with my bunny pocket skirt. However, then I realized that I still need to pay my student loan and cell phone bills next month and my meagre savings is dwindling. So not only am I not gonna make it to Tokyo, I've decided not to make a trip to the Fukuoka Meta shop either. It would be $40 round trip to get up there, and then I'd just be spending money on top of that. So instead I'm going to order the stuff I need from Baby (which I'd rather own anyway) and have it shipped to my host family's house for MUCH cheaper than it would be to ship to the US. I don't mind paying $30 for shipping if I'm already spending $260 on a JSK, but all I can afford right now is the stuff I need: pink socks, white socks, and a white headbow, and it's not worth it to have them shipped to the US. I'm gonna be coming back here someday. For sure. And a trip to Tokyo will be in order.

Also today, we had our most favorite kindergarten class full of monsters. Really just two monsters. Sho and Jyunnsei. They're hyperactive, full of their own importance, don't listen to instruction, and have a knack for disrupting class. Today they spent the first ten minutes talking about Caitlin R. and I behind our backs... or really right in front of our faces b/c we can't understand that much Japanese, calling us names of some kind. I'm sure it wasn't malicious, but when someone is calling you something you can't understand, and everyone else seems to think it's hilarious, you kinda want to smack them. Later in class Sho was running around while he was supposed to be playing BINGO and ran right up to me and grabbed my boobs. Like, full on grabbed a handful. He let go right away, but all I could do was go "No! Nooo!" and shake my head. He did the same thing to Brittney a couple weeks ago apparently. I don't know what to do with this kid.

On the way home I finally ran into the cute geek-chic college guy that lives across the street. I saw him last week as he was leaving his house, but he must have been late because he RAN down the stairs. Today I saw him riding toward the stairway on his bike so I picked up my pace a bit to see if I could catch him. Luckily he was walking up the stairs really slow... but he had his headphones on, so he didn't realize I was there until I tried to sneak past him. Then he was like "Oh!" *pulls out earbuds* "Herro." Me: "konnichiwa." Him: "Ah! Gaijin!" Me: *sigh* "Hai!" He didn't realize right away? I dunno. But his name is Hiroyuki, he's in college, but he's only 18. Maybe a little young for me. Plus, maybe not so much with the English. I keep running into the ones I can't have a conversation with. *shakes fist* Joni, maybe I can bring him home for you. XP

Anyway, dinner was chicken, tofu, pasta salad, bean sprouts, and rice. And we watched the news which even I could recognize about North Korea. It's kinda scary being this close, and they talk about it on the news everyday, so I'm sure everyone is really worried about this nuclear weapons thing. I said something to my host mom about how I wished we had never gone to Iraq because then we would have the man power to help now (though I'm still a bit conflicted about the whole US policing the world thing), and she was like "Me too, me too." And then she said that years ago N. Korea kidnapped some Japanese people and they were never seen again. I don't know the whole story about that, because her English is not very good, and my Japanese is not very good ("we have same heart" she said on my first day <3), so I don't know exactly what she was talking about. Sorry to bring up politics, but I figured I'd offer the broad scheme of the doings and goings on.

Okay, I feel that I've rambled long enough, and if you've made it this far, I applaud you. I (might remember to) post again later, in the meantime here is a link to my Nagasaki Photobucket album, which doesn't have everything, but it's got a good random sampling. And if anyone has any random questions (my dad wanted to know what Japanese bathrooms are like) please feel free to ask!

http://s628.photobucket.com/albums/uu7/okami_loli_chan/Nagasaki/

Oh yeah, and Atashinchi no Danshi is a Jdorama that is currently airing in Japan (watching it on primetime right now!) about a homeless girl who marries a rich company owner in exchange for him paying off her father's debts to the yakuza, which is what made her homeless in the first place. I hope that makes sense. The actress is Maki Horikita who also played Mizuki in the live action Hana Kimi.
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16th-Jun-2009 08:28 pm (UTC) - yay updates!
Haha I was wondering what's going on over there!
"men in kimono on scooters"
Pics or it didn't happen xD.
Those kids sound really awful. It's funny cuz everyone says Japanese schools are super strict and Japanese people are always super polite and stuff...but I guess not.
And yes bring the cute guy back! Japanese people are skinny so he should fit in your suitcase.
Your host mom sounds so adorable. Even if you can't talk too much.

Anyway it's really interesting to hear about what's going on. Japan sounds so different from here.
Do people treat you differently there because you're (obviously) not Japanese? Like...I've heard about them being somewhat hostile towards foreigners. But do they think you're a certain way because you're American?
Like...when I was in Costa Rica my host student admitted that they think Americans are fat. And the rest of the world seems to think we're stupid or something. Do they have stereotypes like that about Americans?
16th-Jun-2009 11:03 pm (UTC) - Re: yay updates!
I sooo want to get a picture of a kimono guy on a scooter. The problem is they go by so fast, and I never have my camera out. I'm gonna have to just stand on a street corner one of these days and wait for stuff like that.

The kids aren't that bad. They're only in kindergarten, so it's not like they're TRYING to sexually harass me. Plus here kids tend to sleep in the same room as their parents and take baths with their parents until they're at least six or so, so at that age the boys don't really see it as any different from their mom's body. I know that sounds weird, and most Americans would be going "ew," but it just a cultural thing. And boys here tend to be spoiled. The parents let them get away with a lot, but Yoko says it's always been that way, and the Japanese men don't run around acting like spoiled brats from what I've seen, so I guess it works out in the end.

As far as treating me differently... I get a lot of stares while I'm walking around on the street, or... any where. And they tend to look a little hostile sometimes, but I asked Yoko about it and she said "I think they're curious. I don't think they hate you. But you are cute, so they just curious." I love Yoko. She is pretty much awesome. And my host father did say at one point that he was expecting me to be "very big"... no clarification if he meant fat or just tall, so he was surprised that I'm pretty small. I wouldn't be surprised if people in other countries think all Americans are fat. It's even all over the American news: half the population of the US is overweight, I'm sure the word gets around. And when you don't know anything personally about people from a certain country, "half the population" is a big number... and it can easy turn into "everyone" in people's minds. I haven't run into anyone thinking I'm stupid yet... but it might be because I surprise people a little with the fact that I can speak some Japanese. My friend Ro is convinced that all Japanese boys are under the impression that American girls are easy... but I'm hoping that's not true. I'll try to update later with more stuff!
17th-Jun-2009 09:44 pm (UTC)
omghi! XD. I'm sorry you can't make it to Tokyo =(...I'm glad you seem to be having fun though! And yay for brand stuff XD!

Holy crap, children are awful sometimes XD.

Yeah, the stuff about North Korea is scary. I hate how we have absolutely no control of these things. -_-.

And about American stereotypes....the fat one is pretty true unfortunately. Most of us *are* fat. So I wouldn't be surprised if that's what they think about us.

When I was in Hawaii, I was definitely a minority XD so I understand how you might be feeling. There are very few caucasians on the side of the island I was on. I was called a "haole" which is basically a trouble making white person. I felt unwelcome @_@. There's a "kill haole day" there...so..scary lol. enough rambling XD.

Traditionally, aren't the japanese very attracted to pale skin though? They have a lot of whitening skin creams and stuff, so they might be staring in curiousity or in awe XD.
18th-Jun-2009 06:54 am (UTC)
Ewww... kill haole day? That sounds... kind of illegal to even name a day that.

As far as white skin goes, they do kind of value it... in fact some of the ninth grade girls today were saying something about my white skin when they thought I couln`t understand them. Which I couldn`t except that I got that they were talking about my white skin, lol. I think I`m just not used to their facial expressions enough to know if their stares are hostile or not.

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